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Sent to a friend I HATE MY STEPSON! I do not care what anyone thinks, hell I\\\'m PROUD to say it! None of you have to live with him and look at his ass everyday, so shut up. I call him fag (bc I just know he is), zit face, pimple face(bc he is), retard, \\\"the thing\\\", asshole, ass face, ect, ect. He is 13 now, and came to live with us 2 yrs ago. When he was 6 yrs old, I caught him putting a toy wand in the vagina of our then 3 YR OLD! Since that time, I have made it my mission to be sure his life sucks. My husband only took him after his bitch of a mother was found unfit. The kid knows I hate him and why. Bc we told him. But it still causes problems bc my husband won\\\'t correct him like he should. He pussy foots around things, then it all blows up on ME everytime, bc zitface cries. I mean come on, a 13 yr old boy CRYING?! What a fucking pussy. He runs and throws a ball like a girl, too. He\\\'s SO lame. If you only knew. Now I know you guys are all gonna give grief for this, but I can\\\'t wait to hear from those who understand and can show some sympathy.Rating:3.55
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- This is so horrible and sickens me to my stomach. If you dont want the boy tell the authorities. Im sure they will gladly take him from you. Hopefully your husband wises up and sees you for the total piece of crap that you really are and takes his son away from you. You only have one childhood and you are ruining this poor boys. Grow up and get a brain and a conscience while your at it.
- I really hate my 8yr old stepson. I wish his mother would come take him away. She'd probably treat him alot better than I do at this point. I'm verbally abusive towards him and I don't like it b/c it makes me look like an ass and him a victim. He's constently getting into trouble and grounded. He knows I hate him and I never tell him I love him. Part of the reason I think is b/c I'm pregnant with my first child, a girl, and I cannot take my antidepresants or drink to feel some relief from his winy, clingy, stupid ass. My husband takes his side of course. I wish he would go live back with his nana. My husband should have never got custody to begin with b/c he's an alcoholic with 2 DUIs, no license and smokes pot. Why the FUCK would the court give him custody? Oh wait, I know b/c he married me! I have a steady job, benefits and the appearance of a sound mind, body and soul. I'm screaming on the inside. If he were to die or be gone tomorrow or today even, I would be so happy and releived. I would shed a tear or two for appearance but that's it. I'm waiting for him to be kidnapped or hit by a car or just have the govt take him away. But alas all this is just wishful thinking and I know that here in realityville I'm stuck with this bastard forever! So, if you don't like the way I talk to him or act around him call social services and take him away PLEASE!!!!!
- I love this post! I also hate my stepson. I don't even acknowledge him as my step son. He's my fiancées child. He was the product of pure hate. He is such a loser kid, I know he will never be anything productive in life. My fiancée and I have our own little bundle of joy! And he's only 1! I can tell my fiancé is sick and tired of her son also. I wish he could go play marco poll on the freeway or get ran over by a car. If here was a feeling more than hatred, that's what I feel for this sack of shit. I feel like I'm being punished for all of my wrongdoings being with this child. He is garbage. He doesn't shower and always argues and talks back. I want him to go to jail or die.
- My stepson is a slacker loser. He's in his late 20's now, and has been nuts since I came into his life 20 years ago. He's never respected me. He's been on drugs, got one girl pregnant and is living with another, is driving around without insurance...oh and he's never had a job either. What a complete loser! I swear if I knew then what I know now, I'd have never gone down the aisle. My wife, of course, is clueless. Hope we can stay married.
- I hate my step son also. He is 13. He is not even my husband's real son, but my husband signed his bcertificate anyway. His mom is a crackhead, slut. And never see's the child. My husband is always at work and I am stuck with the little jerk. He is a misrible, little asshole. He mopes around all the time is rude, disrespectful and I can't take it. Muy husband is always like poor little him, her doesn't have anybody. Hey not my fault, my daughter is 12 and her father is dead, died when she was 6, she doesn't mope around feeling sorry for herself, so why does he. Sometimes I just wanna run with my 3yr old, and 12 year old. Oh year my 3 year old looks and acts just like my husband and my stupid stepson is so jelious of it. He is not my husband real son, I am tired of this stupid little shit. What to do?
- My stepson is going on 19. He has been arrested for assault- shot his former boss with a bee bee gun 5 times ! Plead no contest. He was at his Mother's house and slept with a 14 year old girl. The parents made a complaint to the police. Nothing happened to him. He was jus pulled over by the Police and they confiscated marijuania pipe and papers then tore the seat apart in his car. He wasn't arrested. The he comes to visit us this weekend. I have a 14 year old that loves him. They love to hang out together. Bad influence. I just hate this kid. He is a loser. Causes problems in our house all the time. My husband tells me I should be more adult about it. About what. I finally confessed to my Husband that I don't like his son. And his son does not like me. We fought all weekend about his son. Awful situation.
- I hate my stepson. He is a sack of shit! He lies, thieves, and gets bad grades. He is a total loser boy that wont even graduate on time because he failed kindergarten. So one more year with his lame ass! I hate him!
- Omigosh...this blog is hilarious! LOVE IT! I'm so happy to see when people can just let it all out...the truth! Finally! Ive posted my true feelings on many sites over the years, only to get bashed - and I see a few of those idiots on here too - you know who you are! People should not judge us when they obviously have not walked in our shoes. I love the very profound comment, that stepparenting is forever paying for someone else's mistake - so true! If that was a bumper sticker, I'd slap that baby on my car in a heartbeat! While most of our issues come from the lack of real parenting from our partners, that doesnt change how unpleasant their little spawns from hell are turning out and how it makes us feel to be stuck with them. It amazes me that any of you would let these aholes live in your house (I'd sooner make my husband leave) esp if abusing your own child? No fn way...but I KNOW first hand that EVERY sitch is unique, so I dont judge ANYONE for how they feel. My SS is turning 16 this month and I cant wait for him to get a life...but I know that wont happen. He prob wont even graduate HS and will likely knock someone up just like his who'e mother. Oh well...I could go on, but this was just fun reading!
- I love this post! I also hate my stepson. I don't even acknowledge him as my step son. He's my fiancées child. He was the product of pure hate. He is such a loser kid, I know he will never be anything productive in life. My fiancée and I have our own little bundle of joy! And he's only 1! I can tell my fiancé is sick and tired of her son also. I wish he could go play marco poll on the freeway or get ran over by a car. If here was a feeling more than hatred, that's what I feel for this sack of shit. I feel like I'm being punished for all of my wrongdoings being with this child. He is garbage. He doesn't shower and always argues and talks back. I want him to go to jail or die.
- you are all low lifes,it's no wonder most of your stepsons have gotten progressively worse, with piece of shit adults like you around, i hope your step kids grow up to murder you.
- I wish that little piece of shit would go the fuck away forever. He ruins our perfect family with his hyper nervous drama. Stupid bastard cant handle anything. I would be happy if he died. He doesnt listen, everything he does is wrong, he is ugly and fat. The only time my house is tolerable is when he is locked in his room or outside or best of all GONE. I keep hating and yelling at him hoping he will just disappear. But everyday there he is shitting on our blissful family. Why the hell did i marry into this shitty kids miserable life? Now ive got 2 kids with his mom but I dont know if i can "tolerare" him for 10 more years when he gets my boot up his ass as he walks out the door for hopefully the last time. My choices: divorce my wife and REAL kids, kill him, or kill myself....hmmm choices choices.
- Wow some people really hate their step children. I don't hate mine. I really care about him. What I hate is the way he plays his dad and everyone else. He is 16 on probation, his dad lets him drink do drugs and stay out all night regardless of his probation. He is spoiled and just turned 17 and his dad babies him. He has everyone fulled. I have to grown children of my own and never did half the crap this boy does at his age, actually ever.
- I do understand. I haven't made a point to make my stepson's life hell, but he sure has made my life hell.
- My 15-year-old stepson is a lying, thieiving little bastard whose mother is far too soft on him. he constantly refuses to fo to school yet she still hand him over pocket money at the weekend . he comes in drunk each friday and Saturday night.
Last week was the final straw - he went through my clothes and took 200 bucks from my wallet.
Yet he was back out on the Friday night - mother yet again gives in to him.
Any attempt I make to discipline him is shot down in flames by my wife - I am now going to tell her bluntly that if she won't deal with him I am moving out. - Any of you people complaining about stepsons are morons. "hell I am proud to say it" yet you are hiding behind this site saying how you feel about him. And as for all you other nitwits, unless you got married to your spouse immediately after meeting them you shouldn't have had any delusions of what and how their offspring is as a person, etc. Think back of what got you into this situation that you hate......Your DUMBASS....now you are getting what you deserve, go fuckyourselves.
- He won't change because you treat him bad.
- my step son is 14 now and he is a piece of trash!! and im glad im not the only one honest enough to say that im sick of people telling me - its all your fault why did u marry the father you need to love and accept the kids - well f - that as long as hes living with me im gonna make his life misreable- he has put me through hell in the last 7 yrs!!
- you're a complete monster.
- well if you dont like him take his ass out your house. thats what ill do.
- Hiding? Hardly. I just had mine arrested for stealing the neighbour's panties. I told his mother that I was sick and tired of the little fucker, and that if she didn't like it, she could get the hell out of my house.
Simple as that. - I totally feel for you ... I have the same problem with my step son...I cant wait until graduation, and he is off into the military :)
- I hate my stepson too. Hate hate hate. He is a little asshole. I cant stand to be around him either and he tortures my daughters and my husband lets him get away with everything. Power struggles in our house. He creates negativity and anger, and he makes everyone fight every single day. He is a DEMON CHILD! and I HATE HIM!
- I hate my stepson too. He's 23 going on 4. Whenever we call him on his lies and bullshit, he starts crying and has a meltdown! He is manipulative and a liar!!! He moved out of my house this last weekend and in with his girlfriend. Sucks to be her! He's HER problem now. After his last tantrum, he is NOT allowed back around me or my kids!!! Good riddance.
- I hate my stepson too!! I have a son from a previous relationship who is now 7 and my step son who is now 8. He's such a baby, cries when he doesn't get his own way, cries because he wants something and we said no, answers back, does not use his manners, his father is too soft and if i say something i'm always having a go at him....one of these days i'm going to BLOW!! This child was born a son of a bitch (literally) he wants everything my son has and cries if he hasn't.... its getting pretty boring now all this bloody crying. I hate the little shit!!! I have tried to do nice things with him ie taking him out for lunch, cinema, and days out while his dad is at work I offered to have him so his dad didn't have to take IT back to it's mother because the little brat didn't want to go home and I get all the above!!!!! The little shit enteres my home and doesn't even acknoledge me no 'hi' or anything....HOW RUDE!! I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My partner and I argue because of BRAT any other time when BRAT isn't with us, we're fine!!!!!!!!!! I HATE HIM WITH A PASSION!!!!!!
- THE LITTLE BRAT LIES, CRIES, HAS NO MANNERS AND WANTS EVRYTHING MY SON HAS BEACEUSE HE LIVES WITH US AND BRAT DOESN'T .....TOUGH SHIT!! OF COURSE MY SON HAS EVERYTHING BECASUE HE LIVES WITH US AND BRAT DOESN'T HE SHOULD GO BACK TO HIS BITCH OF A MOTHER AND ASK HER FOR THINGS NOT US... BLOODY CHEEK.
- Where do I even begin? I do hate my stepson. He's 17, thinks he's a major player and boss of this household. When he doesn't get his way about anything he destroys my antique furniture and just recently hit my dog in the eye causing her to almost lose the eye because he was pissed at me. His father will not back me up, will not try to even control his son at all and the son knows it. I'm getting ready to kick both of them out of my home. I think my stepson is possessed and I just want him out of my life. To abuse me is one thing, but an innocent animal? I just want to do the same thing to him that he did to my pup. I hate this miserable piece of crap with every fiber in my being.
- Hate is a strong word, but i HATE my stepson. I've raised him since he was 12 and he is now 20 and he is nothing but a liar and a theif. He doesn't think he needs a job because everyone should pay his way since his mom abandoned him when he was 5. I need to vent but have nobody to vent to because everyone likes to pretend every thing is just fine.
- you just have to keep paying for someone else's mistake. that's what step-parenting feels like to me.
- I've been in my step-sons life since he was 11 and he will be 16 in May. What I have gone thru with him over these years is complete and total hell. He has 2 younger bothers, who adore and love me and call me mom. I have tried everything and I do mean everything I have been there for him, helped him and loved him but all he does is want to fight and and rip our family apart! His mother is a nut case and I know she is a big reason why he is the way he is! We had a huge and long fight last night and I have decided no more! I have told my husband no more helping and being there for this child. I will love him and the two younger ones and be there for them, enough is enough!
- Wow, such strong words here. Part of me is screaming "Yes, yes yes!" with every foul word. I can't help but to feel like a bad mom to my kids to feel that way about his. But I can't help it. I do. My life is so happy and peaceful and fun when that boy isn't around, but as soon as that kid walks through the door it's tension, yelling, arguing and heart palpitations...literally, put me in the ER. I try so hard to choose my words carefully so not to offend my man, or verbally abuse the child (who doesn't hold back on me, or his father at all!). That is one of the hardest things to do. I tell his father he needs counseling...a child like that is NOT enjoying his childhood and he's making me hate my adulthood! He doesn't feel he needs it. I am afraid this is going to break us up, but we have a daughter together and I have a son from a previous marriage. Its no happy family though...only when that boy is not around!!! I'm trying to grin and bear it hoping something is gonna give...but will it?
I feel ALL of your pain and I do NOT judge you and those who do cannot understand what it's like to have hatred for a child, A CHILD, consume you. Either that or they are on some serious drugs that allows them to tune out life. We are HUMAN, that is all and not all of us are Saints. Not only does the hatred consume you, but the guild for feeling that way about a child. But this child has no innocence in his eyes, no empathy. Stay strong sisters. Thank you all for your posts letting me know I AM NOT ALONE!!!! - My red neck stepson's a real asshole at 45 years old. He talks behind my back and I find out from the grandson. I've given/helped this bastard with thousands of dollars and this is what I get. I've thought about divorcing his mother just to get out of this mess. I know she's stuck in the middle and I don't want to be stuck in-between. It's a no win situation. I don't want him around the house, no more money, I don't want any contact with him. It's my wife's son I get all that. He won't tell me anything to my face. This asshole shoots his own dogs when they get sick. Now that's a real man, bullshit. I'm seriously thinking about divorce and cashing out. I think it would be devastating for my wife, but maybe not. She could always live with them and laugh at the hillbilly, redneck jokes.
- My stepson is bipolar, spoiled, lazy, fat-ass and just plain STINKS!!! Literally bad hygeine!! Since he turned 18 he has decided he doesnt have to take his medicine, so now he's paranoid, depressed, and down right crazy as hell. But, his dad and grandparents continue to baby him. POOR MIKEY his mother abandoned him. He's 18 get over it!!!!!! He is lazy as hell and uses his disability as an excuse. I have a disabled child also and he is made to behave and respect others. I cant stand him!!! he is manipulitive and a liar. He cusses me calls me a bitch and generally ignores anything I say. Until he gets mad and gets in my face. yes I knew he had problems when I married his dad, and yes its to the point I am thinking of telling them both to just leave. I love his dad very much and this would break my heart.
- I have the same problem! Our life if great when he's not around, when he moves in.....it's hell! He's a 16 year old slob! He lies, steals and is just a complete moron. He's a spoiled brat at his moms house, she probably even wipes his ass! I'm counting down the years till he gets out! I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way!
- My step son called me meduca my real name is melissa. And my house is the idiot house, his dad, myself and my daughter are all idots and all I do is sit around on the couch watching the food channel and drink beer. What I little shit, he's 7. If I never saw him again, it would be too soon.
- GEEZUS! If I make it until this demon-spawn is 18 and on his own without strangling the little f***er, I'll be amazed. Spoiled little asshole! F***! I want to douse him in gasoline and set him on fire sometimes!
*deep breath*
Okay, overreactions notwithstanding, I just can't take how this spoiled little 17-year-old brat can continue to behave like an 8-year-old day in and day out. When the hell is he going to grow up?
This son of Satan will surely lead me to alcoholism.
- 23 going on 4 is calling his dad (my hubby) asking if he can come back! Last time he was here, he got the cops called on him sevral times, played with hubby's loaded guns in house, AND pulled a knife on my daughter! We just got rid of him; if hubby lets assface back into my house, I will take my kids and leave. We will go live in a sleazy motel if we have to....just to not have to cohabitate with loser-boy. At least the sleazy motel will be peaceful with no man-child drama! His dad had better say no to him! His mom fucked him up, she should have to deal with him!
- My stepson is 7 and is such a baby. He too cries when he doesn't get his way. I hate the little bastard. My husband just thinks he's so fucking perfect! The kid is nails on a chalkboard to me. And I'm pregnant with my first child and I really wish my stepson didn't exist or would even fucking die so I wouldn't have to deal with him. but then I'd get stuck paying for a fucking funeral the rest of my life!
- My step son is retard too! He's not even his dad's son, his whore mum had an affair.
He is an adult but doesn't work, just sits at home sending his poor dad to an early grave. He even threatened his sister with a knife, so he's a pyscho bastard too.
He is also really, really ugly, tall, skinny and has never had a friend. He's a freak and I'm so glad he's not mine.
Why the fuck doesn't the fucking freak fuck off back to his mums? he's her fuck up. then when he gets there they both can fuck off some more. - I HATE my 19 year old stepson! My girlfriend and I moved in together around 18 months ago, straight from day one he wanted to argue about anything and everything, glares constantly at me and struts around the house like he's a UFC wrestler but starts to cry when made to sit down to talk things over!
Ive even caught him touching his mothers back side and poking his mother in the breast, which he find's funny, told him if he does it again he will be made to leave the house!
He refuses to do chores, will not wear a seatbelt in the car, refuses to clean up after himself and bullies his younger brother, who by the way is a really pleasent, balanced 17 year old.
Cant wait for him to leave, PIECE OF SHIT!!! - Stepchild suck! I hate my stepson! He is a little drama queen. Personally I think he is gay. All my family and my wife's family think he is gay. I have to live with this child in my house and the only relief I get is when I am at work. I hate going home.
- I hate my step son. He was a only child before me and my two children came along 3 years ago. The first 2 years of our relationship was hell with him. Hes a spoiled brat. Hes mean to my son. Hes spitting imagine of his mother. I cant stand him in our house when he comes for the weekeneds. He makes my skin crawl. I feel that he is going to break up my marriage and I love my husband dearly. I dont know how to deal with him. How do I deal with him?
- I hate my step son with a passion. he is a demon child. He is 17 and I hope to God there is a draft when he turns 18 and he goes.
- I invested so much time and energy in my stepson, but he was nothing but a no good low life thug punk. And a pervert with no impulse control whatsoever. And dumb as a box of rocks. After 3 years we shipped off. If I never see him again it will be too soon. Sorry folks, some people are just a lost cause and if you allow them to stay they will destroy the whole family. Good riddance.
- whoa where do i begin? my main problem is my step kid wants and thinks he's normal like he's 16 and should get to do 16 year old things, stay up late etc, have a cell phone ect, but never works for any of it. ever!!!HIS MOTHER IS HIS WORST ENEMY! she has explanations for all of his laziness. i could go on at least 10,000 more sentences but got to end it some time.
